FROM BEGINNER TO QUEEN BE(E) — Be Flexible When God Says, “No.”

Catch up on this series — Lesson One: Be Your Own Cheerleader
Have you ever set out to do something, believing it was from God when suddenly He throws up stop signs and roadblocks? Maybe it seemed the stage was set for you to get that job change, or lead an area of ministry and then WHAM!–life whips a sharp turn away from what you thought was your destination. It’s easier to accept God’s interference when the goal was closer to sin than sanctified. But what do you do when your plan is godly and He still stamps it DENIED?
2 Samuel tells of David’s desire to build a temple for the Lord. He felt bad that he lived in a nice home and all God got was a tent. That’s sweet, right? Even the prophet Nathan thought it was a terrific plan. He told David to do what was in his heart. If God’s prophet gives it two thumbs up, you feel pretty confident you’re on the right track. Wrong.
God sent word through Nathan that He was taking David’s idea and handing the job to his son, Solomon. Wait. What just happened?
I have seen people refuse to be a part of a project if they didn’t get to do it their way.
Can you imagine how David could have reacted?
  • But it was my idea! I have the perfect plan in my mind.
  • My intentions are pure. I was doing the right thing. Why am I being punished?
  • I know I’m not perfect, but I’ve proven myself capable. I’m a “man after God’s own heart,” after all.
But David took a step back, and let his son take the reins. Even more, David the King accepted a subservient role, did the grunt work like picking up supplies, and let someone else enjoy the limelight. What humility!
David’s behavior proves his character—his original desire for the temple wasn’t self-serving. The King wanted God to be honored above all else, so he had no problem honoring the man God chose–and God applauded David for it.
The Lord said, “Because it was in your heart to build a house for My name, you did well that it was in your heart.” (1 Kings 8:18)
Even though David didn’t construct the temple, his deep love for the Lord inspired it. Your motives matter. If your love and desire to glorify God is your top priority, and you recognize that He orders your steps, you won’t care if things don’t go your way.

Rigidity often comes from pride or fear.

Flexibility is a byproduct of faith.

So, let go and go with the flow. Even when God’s answer is, “No.”
In my experience, there’s a Best Yes up ahead.
Next Week–Lesson Four: Be God-Honoring, Not People-Pleasing

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Filter blog posts

Browse the categories

About me

Meet the social media strategist

Partner with me to elevate your business

Meet the social media strategist who is dedicated to helping your brand grow and thrive in the digital world. With a deep understanding of the latest trends and platforms, this expert blends creativity with strategy to design campaigns that resonate with your audience. From content creation and community engagement to data-driven insights and performance analysis, every step is carefully planned to ensure your brand’s online presence is both impactful and authentic.

With a proven track record of building strong social media identities, this strategist knows how to create meaningful connections that translate into real results. Whether you’re looking to increase brand awareness, boost engagement, or drive conversions, the approach is always tailored to your specific goals. Working together, you can transform your social media channels into powerful tools that amplify your message, grow your following, and enhance your brand’s influence in the digital space.

Speaking Request Form

Request For *

CONNECT

For promotional and business collaborations, or for any personal questions, you can reach me here: